I was able to knock out a few interesting things this class! The middle piece is something that I started in the last round of Empowering the Painter and brought it back to continue to work through. Lots of problem solving!
My local craft group is having a round of art & craft supply swaps this weekend and I LOVE picking up canvases from these events!! I often get pieces that are half-painted already or even a full piece and I get to enhance on renew and I love that feeling. We’ll see how these go next week!
Anyone else trying REALLY hard not to turn on the A/C? We had to cave this week.
Down 1.8 this week! WHAAAT? WW is WORKING!
I’m really pumped at how well Weight Watchers is working again. I found a really good group and we’re getting into the summer where fruits and veggies are everywhere!
GYM July 2016 – June 2017: 86(as of 5/15) /120
Be Creative You may have noticed my cover picture today….I was gifted all of these knitting needles and some stash yarn from a friend who got them from a friend. I LOVE ACCEPTING OTHER PEOPLE’S CRAFT STUFF! I have a pretty good stash started and I haven’t spent any money on it! I finished the scarf and am excited!! After a few attempts at trying to start a hat and the legwarmers….I think I need more help!
Pay Down Some Mortgage I threw $50 on that bitch this week.
Frugal AF I biked to and from work most days last week thus saving myself $14.40 in SEPTA bus fares.
Continuing Education Credits for Health License I breezed through some chapters at work this week but still have a ways to go.
Learning About Annuities We did another training on Friday! Woo!
A new perspective on bloggery I read an interesting thread on Reddit this week asking how much time people devote to side-hustles. A lot of people said “Zero” and spend the time one would use on side hustles to enrich their full-time careers instead. I think there’s something to be said about that.
Weekly Updates 20 down and I kind of can’t believe it! 32 weeks to go. 1 more week until VACATION.
Sorry…as a product of the 90’s I can’t NOT make this joke.
Man…when I’m down, I am DOWN. Week 17’s WW mantra was to be kind to yourself and treat yourself as you would a friend on the same journey. I’m hard on myself. I am mad when I don’t accomplish my goals and even more mad when it’s because I am getting in my own way.
I DONATED BLOOD ON WEDNESDAY. So I’ve stayed on track with that side goal holla. I always feel better doing things that are for the greater good even though I hate needles. I was stabbed a total of 6 times last week between birth control, allergy shots, and blood donation.
My diet was a battle as we managed to get 4 boxes of Insomnia Cookies for Administrative Professionals Day (aka my bosses like me more than your bosses like you day) and I have very little control around baked goods. I also ate a LOT of barbecue so I bet weigh in is going to be rough.
Handling this new StepBet well still. 2 weeks down, 4 more to go!
GYM July 2016 – June 2017: 82(as of 4/28) /120
Well…..at this point I would have to go to the gym every day between now and July 1 so I think I may have to shift this from July 2016 – August 2017 :( I’m going to keep going and keep trucking to do the best I can but it’s not looking great.
Be Creative I’ve been knitting AND journaling again. I always get to work early so I’ve just been jotting a few lines down before work hubbub starts. It feels good to try.
I’ve also taken to listening to podcasts instead of music at work and I’m finding it helpful. Personal finance, comedy, and personal growth seem to be my podcast genres.
Pay Down Some Mortgage I threw $61.40 in there just to get myself up to an even $700 by the end of April.
Frugal AF Man, I’m just trying. I slip up here and there on food but at least they’re small. I need to find new breakfast options as I am starting to loathe oatmeal (again) and have fallen prey to the breakfast buffet downstairs because bacon. My budget gets blown one bacon at a time.
I’ve been listening to some personal finance podcasts and find them helpful:
6am. Monday morning. Trying desperately to get back on the gym game.
I was only down .2 this week but that’s still better than a gain and probably most certainly has nothing to do with the amount of pizza I ate. I’m not excited about weigh-in tonight because I was not good…including one day that I ate 100 points! Yikes!
I’m not gonna lie – I’m having a REALLY hard time getting back into the groove of my 6am workouts and normal life.
GYM July 2016 – June 2017: 78(as of 4/11) /120
Be Creative I did a lot of knitting when I went to my dad’s in Delaware this weekend.
Pay Down Some Mortgage I did not work toward this goal this week. I’ve been doing well but this week was a rough one financially so that didn’t happen and here’s why:
Frugal Fail of the Week I went for my allergy shot on Wednesday and tried to stop by a new local coffee shop to try them on the way…..they were cash only. I don’t carry cash. So I figure I’ll just go to Starbucks instead along the way. I’m out of money on the app so I have to reload….and the reload minimum is $25. I go stand in the first Starbucks and a barista looks in the eye but does not acknowledge me and keeps holding a conversation with another barista. I count to 30 and walk out because I HATE THAT SHIT. I try to go to the other Starbucks closer to my doctor and they are closed because they can’t make coffee.
I get to work and sitting on my desk is a coupon for free coffee and pastry from Au Bon Pain. What a freaking waste of $25. SHAME.
Continuing Education Credits for Health License This thing called “tax season” should finally be behind me for the year and I can get a little breathing room to do this.
Learning About Annuities Still waiting for that next session to come around
Shout out to David Carlson from Young Adult Money for taking the time to read last week’s post and comment! I read a lot of YAM and his comment reminded me that I need to be better about commenting [thoughtfully] on the blogs that I read more often.
Weekly Updates I’ve noticed that I’ve been getting bad again about actually updating each section of this update. Stop it, me! You’re better than that!
And with this I pose a random question to you:
Have you ever had someone help you with your cover letter, resume, or job hunt? Was it free help or paid? Tell me about it please!
Respect nutrition – I’ve been eating a lot of oatmeal and trying to stay right buuuuut there were lots of pizza slices and cookies this week
Do one legitimate straight-leg pushup – I’ve been able to up my hand weights from 5lb to 8lb and can now do about 3 knee push ups. PROGRESS! I FEEL IT!
Beat last month’s 13 days at the gym – I’m at 10 as of Friday! I’m going to try to break this record this very week!
It was really difficult to stay on track for the StepBet this week with all that snow! It makes me so lethargic. On Tuesday I ended up working from home and spent the last hour of my day jogging in place and walking around the block to knock out the last 4,000 steps before bed. Rest day can’t be Tuesday!
GYM July 2016 – June 2017: 61(as of 3/19) /120 HALFWAY MARK! WOOO!! Think I can do 59 more by the end of June?
Be Creative I messed up in my scarf this week and was unable to make knitting circle….so that is on hold until I can get help to “frog” a few lines and get in. I know where I messed up and tried to just keep knitting….but it’s an eyesore now and I feel like I won’t be happy with the finished product unless I take the time to fix it. Sooooo I’m going to fix it!
Pay Down Some Mortgage Another $100 went into Principal! I’m not fucking around.
Frugal as Fuck I loaded up one of my desk drawers with oatmeal and oatmeal essentials so I always have a post-gym breakfast. Or an emergency lunch. And a backup bag of coffee. As you can see, I also use painter’s tape and a sharpie to label things – I do this in the kitchen too. It’s a cheap labeling system that doesn’t leave sticker residue on anything.
The boyfriend and I had a pleasantly cheap weekend – we walked to the grocery store Saturday to get a week’s worth of groceries and Philly AIDS Thrift on Sunday and bought nothing. We stayed mostly indoors doing home shit and sleeping.
Continuing Education Credits for Health License Not much CE work was done this week. I should really get back on that before I lose momentum!
The DI seminar was cancelled due to weather. Fuck you, weather! I wanted to get my free learn on!
Learning About Annuities This got pushed to the end of the month. Boo.
Why The Fuck Are You Reading This?
Still not focusing much on this AND I believe I have killed the weekly #TealTuesday posts….I will continue to post #TealTuesday stuff on my Instagram and Tumblr.
A friend once gave me the advice that i should focus on doing things rather than posting about them. I like that so I’m going to keep on that.
I need to get better about proofreading these on Monday morning on the way to the gym before they post – sometimes when I copy/paste I miss things that make the weekly updates make less sense. So I’m going to work on that more.
I find it to be the perfect planner/journal for people that like bullet journals but find the thought of creating one anxiety-inducing.
I don’t use every single aspect of this thing because I find it to be too much. I didn’t want to go through a spiritual journey before I started putting dates in it and I’m really not good at setting intentions and as you can see – sometimes I phone them in just to not have it be empty:
I love that this journal/planner hybrid as it has a LOT of space to think – there are several note sections and “Reflections & Ideas” boxes that I will often write in just to get something out of my head.
This thing goes with me everywhere and is also a ghetto folder/wallet – I have my library card taped in the back since I lost the original and I’ve been keeping my Girl Meets Fitness workouts in the back so I don’t forget them at the gym.
How do you stay organized? What planner/planning method do you use?
Here are some reflections that I drafted up while sitting in the waiting room for my allergy shot this morning…enjoy this bonus post!Wow – this was taken in 2015 in the first few months of this job. My hair is much longer and that outfit *barely* fits now. If you had told me around the time this was taken that I would still be here 2 years later I would laugh…
…because I didn’t think I was cut out for this field and that I was going to be fired.
It was a series of factors – mostly the timing of growth in the office at a time that I was still learning how to use a very complex set of systems, be a legitimate assistant for the first time, and learning all of the different products and services this firm offers. I was also dealing with a toxic home environment that did not help AT ALL. My fear of being fired became so severe that it is now just a running joke…but at the time I was concerned that my mistakes would cost us clients and that constant battle to my self esteem was dark.
But I am still here. I now [mostly] know what I’m doing. AND I’m happy!
I get really sad when I see people jumping from job to job because they aren’t happy immediately. How do you know that if you aren’t even giving yourself time to get in the groove? We’re not super geniuses that pick up a new company’s procedures and cultures overnight.
How to Survive the First 6 Months at Any Job
1. DO NOT GET DISCOURAGED IMMEDIATELY
I know this is difficult. I know you’re new and things are new and different and you would rather go play in traffic than fuck up and have to be told that you fucked up. It’s OK. Instead of getting anxious and upset you should own up and try not to make that mistake again.
2. WRITE EVERYTHING DOWN
It’s a hell of a lot easier to keep your shit together when you have notes. Take the time you need to write clear notes that you can reference when you’re confused about something. A good employer will not be annoyed by the time it takes you to write things down for later.
3. ASK EVERY QUESTION YOU HAVE AND ASSUME NOTHING
Even if you’re WRITING EVERYTHING DOWN you may still be confused and that’s totally okay. Whenever I get an intern, the first thing I tell them is to never hesitate to ask a questions because a good employer would rather you ask a question 3 times and do something right rather than make an educated guess and fuck things up. Hell, I still take applications to my supervisor to review before I submit if I’m in anyway concerned.
4. PUT YOUR FUCKING CELL PHONE AWAY
You don’t need the distraction. You don’t need to ever be caught scrolling on Facebook. You’re not yet acclimated enough to be able to juggle social and work life at the same time. AND you don’t want to look bored or like you don’t have enough work to do.
5. UNDERSTAND THAT TRUE GROOVE TAKES T-I-M-E
I have just recently (I’d say since about November 2016) gotten into my work groove. I found my sweet spot for organization and task tracking. This groove consists of a written daily to-do list, Outlook Tasks, tasks in our Client Relationship Management system, and a spiralbound notebook that I write everything in when I’m on the phone or have an adviser in front of me explaining a bigger task. It may seem like a lot when typed out but this is how I’ve been able to effectively track and manage my tasks.
I wish I had followed this advice when I started but am also thankful that I have an awesome employer and we’ve managed to work it all out.
I basically lost the first half of the week recovering from surgery – I wasn’t much of a human again until Thursday this week but bascially sleeping for 6 days gave me enough energy to get some good stuff done around the home! Check it out.