Okay….so as I mentioned in my last weekly update….my HVAC system took a huge poop last week. So. I have a Big Hairy Expense Goal coming up. I BHEG if you will instead of a BHAG for those familiar with business planning.
Estimated Cost: Between $6,000 – $10,000
Here is what I’m doing to make this as easy as possible:
My boyfriend freelances and has been available this week to have 4 different companies come to look at our system and quote replacing the gas furnace and A/C. He was also kind enough to do a BUNCH of research to help me understand what these dudes are talking about and what I’ll be paying for.
LOOKING FOR ALTERNATIVES
We’ve been taking two box fans back and forth between the living room and bedroom. Unfortunately, there’s also construction on our block so we can’t keep the front windows open. A friend is kindly lending us a window unit so we can wait out the 2+ weeks we may be waiting for installation. This will keep us comfortable at home and less likely to seek out other places that will make us spend money!
CUTTING OTHER EXPENSES
So far I’ve cancelled my Bennett compost service, Spotify, and Amazon Prime. My cell phone will be paid off in my next bill so that should go down. We aren’t running a 25 year old inefficient air conditioning unit so that is saving expenses….though I’m not sure that’s saving when we’re running box fans 24/7.
One expense I’m not cutting? The $15/month gym membership. I’ve been going more and showering there to conserve at the house and make it less hot.
MAKING SOME EXTRA MONEY
I am paying $10 for a 10×10 space at the DiSilvestro Craft & Flea Market on Saturday from 11am through 4pm. I’ve got lots of sewing, quilting, and scrapbooking supplies that I’ve been carting around for way too long. Every night this week I’ve gone home and worked on pricing, staging options, and condensing for ease of travel. My only issue right now is when I signed up for this thing the weather was supposed to be sunny in the 80s and now they’re calling for rain. Anyone have a pop up tent I could borrow?
While pricing and organizing, I’ve been running Swagbucks and InboxDollars
That’s what I’m doing leading up to making a decision and saying goodbye to all of my money for a few months. What do you do when you’re suddenly strapped for cash?
Here are some reflections that I drafted up while sitting in the waiting room for my allergy shot this morning…enjoy this bonus post!Wow – this was taken in 2015 in the first few months of this job. My hair is much longer and that outfit *barely* fits now. If you had told me around the time this was taken that I would still be here 2 years later I would laugh…
…because I didn’t think I was cut out for this field and that I was going to be fired.
It was a series of factors – mostly the timing of growth in the office at a time that I was still learning how to use a very complex set of systems, be a legitimate assistant for the first time, and learning all of the different products and services this firm offers. I was also dealing with a toxic home environment that did not help AT ALL. My fear of being fired became so severe that it is now just a running joke…but at the time I was concerned that my mistakes would cost us clients and that constant battle to my self esteem was dark.
But I am still here. I now [mostly] know what I’m doing. AND I’m happy!
I get really sad when I see people jumping from job to job because they aren’t happy immediately. How do you know that if you aren’t even giving yourself time to get in the groove? We’re not super geniuses that pick up a new company’s procedures and cultures overnight.
How to Survive the First 6 Months at Any Job
1. DO NOT GET DISCOURAGED IMMEDIATELY
I know this is difficult. I know you’re new and things are new and different and you would rather go play in traffic than fuck up and have to be told that you fucked up. It’s OK. Instead of getting anxious and upset you should own up and try not to make that mistake again.
2. WRITE EVERYTHING DOWN
It’s a hell of a lot easier to keep your shit together when you have notes. Take the time you need to write clear notes that you can reference when you’re confused about something. A good employer will not be annoyed by the time it takes you to write things down for later.
3. ASK EVERY QUESTION YOU HAVE AND ASSUME NOTHING
Even if you’re WRITING EVERYTHING DOWN you may still be confused and that’s totally okay. Whenever I get an intern, the first thing I tell them is to never hesitate to ask a questions because a good employer would rather you ask a question 3 times and do something right rather than make an educated guess and fuck things up. Hell, I still take applications to my supervisor to review before I submit if I’m in anyway concerned.
4. PUT YOUR FUCKING CELL PHONE AWAY
You don’t need the distraction. You don’t need to ever be caught scrolling on Facebook. You’re not yet acclimated enough to be able to juggle social and work life at the same time. AND you don’t want to look bored or like you don’t have enough work to do.
5. UNDERSTAND THAT TRUE GROOVE TAKES T-I-M-E
I have just recently (I’d say since about November 2016) gotten into my work groove. I found my sweet spot for organization and task tracking. This groove consists of a written daily to-do list, Outlook Tasks, tasks in our Client Relationship Management system, and a spiralbound notebook that I write everything in when I’m on the phone or have an adviser in front of me explaining a bigger task. It may seem like a lot when typed out but this is how I’ve been able to effectively track and manage my tasks.
I wish I had followed this advice when I started but am also thankful that I have an awesome employer and we’ve managed to work it all out.
Sorry that I haven’t been so active! I am here today because I am taking a Wallow Day
Here are all the stress-related (whining) reasons why. Feel free to skip this and go right onto my stress management methods: